A diferença entre viver e tentar a vida em Portugal

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Eu nunca morei fora do Brasil, até oito  meses atrás, quando vim morar em Portugal. Sempre quis viver essa experiência, mas nunca tive condições financeiras de fazer isso com o mínimo de segurança. Então não fiz. Porque, pra mim, não tem essa de “tentar a vida”. Eu quero é viver!

Aos 41 anos, já com dois filhos e uma vida um pouco mais estabilizada (ainda bem menos do que eu gostaria, mas é o que tem pra hoje! rs), cá estamos. E, apesar de eu achar toda essa mudança uma verdadeira aventura, ela não tem absolutamente nada de aventureira. Sabe por quê?

  • Fizemos nosso dever de casa, com o mínimo necessário de planejamento;
  • Conversamos com muitas pessoas que vivem aqui, para tentar entender um pouco a realidade da vida em Portugal;
  • Não viemos esperando facilidade ou um lugar perfeito;
  • Não chegamos nos achando as últimas coca colas do deserto, melhores do que os profissionais portugueses;
  • Também não viemos dependendo de encontrar empregos para conseguirmos nos manter aqui;
  • E, o principal: viemos legalizados.

Manual de sobrevivência em Portugal

Eu não tenho a menor intenção de ensinar ninguém a morar em Portugal. Mas, se os meus três leitores (oi, mãe e vó!) que aparecem por aqui vez ou outra quiserem ouvir uma singela opinião, aqui vai: viva a cultura local. Integre-se. Conviva com outras pessoas além dos brasileiros. E, por favor, saia desse papel de imigrante deslocado e sofrido.

Eu acredito muuuito em energia. Na frequência que você vibra. E a forma que isso influencia como o mundo te vê e o Universo lhe traz essas vibrações de volta.

Então, depois que passar aquela período mega chatinho, de resolver quinhentas burocracias e papeladas aqui em Portugal e comer todos os pasteis de nata que couberem na sua barriga, liberte-se!

Mantenha sua confiança e a cabeça pra cima. Não esqueça dos seus valores e do que você é capaz. Mantenha a humildade, aprenda e ouça quem vive por aqui.

Lembre-se sempre que sua nacionalidade não te define. Muitas pessoas se sentem inferiores por serem imigrantes, ou assumem esse papel de inferioridade. Então, como a realidade pode ser diferente? Quando as barreiras existem na sua cabeça, elas vão virar obstáculos na vida real.

Resumindo? Não se rotule. Expatriado. Imigrante. Refugiado. Forasteiro. É fato que gente escrota existe em qualquer lugar do mundo, então pode ficar tranquilo que algum babaca vai aparecer pra te dizer uma palavrinha dessa em algum momento (nunca me aconteceu. E se acontecer, respondo na mesma moeda porque não sou obrigada!).

Mas, isso não tem a ver com viver em Portugal ou com você não ter nascido aqui. Isso tem a ver com os preconceitos que estão na cabeça dos outros. Então deixa na cabeça deles. Tira da sua!

Ampliando as fronteiras

Eu sou irriquieta. E gosto de conviver com pessoas diferentes, culturas diferentes. Imagina o prato cheio que é morar em Portugal, um país com tantas nacionalidades reunidas? Pois é nesse momento que eu estou agora.

Depois de umas semaninhas mais reclusa, pensando com meus botões, me dando tempo de processar tudo que aconteceu nos últimos 250 dias, me joguei de novo pro mundo. É assim que eu sou, e não consigo ser diferente.

Mas, a fase é de ir com calma, ouvir minha intuição, circular em grupos diferentes e, principalmente, me enturmar com os locais. Amigos portugas, sim, ó pá!

Difícil é entendê-los em lugares barulhentos depois de beber alguns copos de vinho. Maaaaas, quem disse que ia ser fácil! ahahahah

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63 Comentários

  1. Muito bom te ler, você não tem somente 3 leitores rs e saiba que está me ajudando muito a formar opinião sobre uma nova “aventura” aos 41 anos de vida!

  2. Concordo consigo quando diz para nos integrarmos a cultura portuguesa. Sei de história de brasileiros que estão aqui há mais de 10 anos e não sabem falar o português “pt-PT”. E outros que “não gostam de portugueses”. Se não gosta do povo daqui, por que veio? Volta para o Brasil!

    O que mais gosto em Portugal é aprender, a cada dia, novas palavras, expressões, curiosidades, etc… sobre a vida dos “Tugas”!

  3. Estamos na fase de planejar (mentalmente) nossa ida para Portugal! Não para tentar e sim viver (como vc disse). Nossa maior dúvida é justamente, como ir de forma legal e segura (para não ter que voltar um dia, por não conseguir se mater ai).

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